Transform Your Relationships with the Chrysalis Wisdom Council
The Chrysalis Wisdom Council transforms communication in groups of two to seven people. Use it to find wisdom about a problem, to resolve conflicts, to create a mission statement or vision, or to clarify relationship issues.
Materials: Obtain a chime that produces a long, clear sound.
Preparation: Select a topic to focus on. Choose someone to ring the chime and someone to speak first.
Procedures:
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"Inner Silence" and "Collect Thoughts" apply to everyone, not just the speaker. |
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Do not respond to the person speaking. |
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During inner silence, abandon your responses. Simply tune in. |
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For groups of two people, the magic happens after each person speaks four or five times. In larger groups, the energy shifts after each person speaks three times. |
Process:
Step 1: (Chime) Say, "One. Inner silence." Empty your mind for four breaths. (Four breaths of inner silence is required to turn off the amygdala.) Don't plan your comments.
Step 2: (Chime) Say, "One. Collect thoughts." Think about the topic meditatively for several breaths.
Step 3: (Chime) Say, "One. Articulate." The first person verbalizes his or her thoughts.
Step 4: (Chime) Say, "One. Acknowledge thoughts and feelings." Notice your mind's automatic reactions without judgment.
Step 5: (Chime) "Two. Inner silence." Although it's now the next person's turn, everyone empties their minds.
Step 6: (Chime) "Two. Collect thoughts." Everyone contemplates the topic meditatively.
Step 7: (Chime) "Two. Articulate." The second person verbalizes.
Step 8: Continue with these four steps for each person. Repeat until each person has spoken at least three times.
Step 9: (Chime) Say, "Final inner silence."
Step 10: (Chime) Say, "Create an intention." Each person says, "I choose..." in random order. Ring the chime between choices.
Step 11: When everyone is finished, discuss practical steps as a group, or record intentions individually.
See Also:
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